How to UNSTUCK yourself – What do you do when you don’t know what to do

I’m an ideas person, not an operations person. I have a staff of 20 in my head running a MULTI-BILLION DOLLAR AGENCY or COMPANY of some type. Right now its just me and my goals are to SCALE UP.

My brain works best at five o’clock in the morning. I find long-term projects very rewarding when they’re one of my own, but torturous when working with others because I can’t stand when people can’t make decisions – I like closure.

Focus on the WHAT and how will reveal itself.

I focus on the WHAT not the how – the how always shows up when you know the what. Then I reverse engineer everything.
I’m also a numbers person; do this, get that. BOOM!

I like a fast pace. I need to be learning and doing new things AND seeing results in order to be happy.

I don’t mind spending money on quality things or experiences if I need to. But I won’t do it because someone expects me too – matter of fact I’ll rebel and NOT do it just for that fact.
Money is only a vibrational resource to create opportunities and experiences.

…The reason I’m bringing all of that up?

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how so much of our suffering comes from not really knowing WHO WE ARE or WHAT WE WANT or WHAT WE NEED and not having a CLEAN life or conscious = too many energy blocks to CREATE more and better in life.

I mean, what are the things you can list that you know FOR SURE about yourself?

I’m not just talking about superficial things like you’re a nice person and make great keto meals; I’m talking about the bigger stuff, too.

What do you LOVE?

What makes you come ALIVE?

What’s your greatest SUPERPOWER?

What do you freaking WANT?
What do you freaking WANT?
What do you freaking WANT?
What do you freaking WANT?
must I say it again?

That’s what I know STOPS US the most…..NOT knowing what we want. HOW do I know this? Because when I fall into that trap, everything in my life stops too, I come to diseray, I can’t make decisions, I go into avoidance mode, I let people or situations distract me.

But when we KNOW what we WANT??? ITS FIRE BABY!! And unstoppable!

If you can’t answer those questions, you can’t steer your life.

It’s like getting into a canoe and just sort of…drifting along….without a paddle.

If I didn’t know that I need a business so I could be accountbale to all the important things in my life that MAKE ME, “Shelley Freaking Hobbs”, I wouldn’t have known to prioritize my business activites that also meet my personal goals —and I might have committed to doing a different type of work that required my living smaller, doing less,and impacting less people. I never even KNEW I had it in me that people wanted what I knew -and I only gained what I knew from walking the walk!

Likewise, if I didn’t know that I need a strong intellectual connection with a partner who is a successful go-getter, emotionally available, looks and smells good, lives a super healthy/fit life….not kinda….but very, AND has a lot of tools and can fix $hit, I wouldn’t know to prioritize that: I’d just be dating dude after dude with cool hair, a fit bod, smooth talk and talking about doing the things….not really doing the things….hoping I’ll be his sugar mama.
But #truestory: has no context to this personal share, but belive me….its podcastable!

Sooooooo,
WHAT DO YOU FREAKING WANT????

If your not going for “something”, are you really LIVING or just getting by?